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This
week I learned how a student that transferred
from my class in February was doing in his new
school. This young man was a student of mine for
more than five years. When he came he was extremely
violent. He constantly threatened to kill people
and to hurt them. Each year as he grew the threats
seemed more plausible. When he started to tower
over me I worked on making him understand that
he could no longer threaten people. If he were
to hit someone no matter how justified, it would
appear that he was the aggressor and the police
would side with the smaller person. He began to
take this to heart and stopped making threats.
He stopped using vulgar language. When he started
at our school his temper tantrums were the things
of legend. When angered he would hit then run
away. He carried grudges forever. The concept
of time passing is hard for students diagnosed
with autism to handle. Every slight took place
earlier in the day or yesterday, even though years
may have passed since it actually occurred. I
had to work on his understanding of the passage
of time. Students with autism remember all of
the bad things that happen to them. With the inability
to understand that time passes they build up a
tendency to react even though nothing really happened.
I had to work on the fact that more good things
happened to him than bad things.
Earlier this year he made the transition to regular
high school as a junior. Since he has been there
he has attended the Prom with a date and as of
his last report card he is getting all A's and
B's. The success of his transition belongs to
him and his parents. When he decided he wanted
to attend regular school, he started making the
changes that were necessary for him to go. This
change would not have been possible without the
determination of the student and the support of
his parents.
- Ken Brzezinski
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