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It's
the fastest growing developmental disability,
according to the Centers for Disease Control an
estimated 1 in 150 babies are born with Autism.
Scientists working to understand the disorder
have uncovered some common characteristics among
mothers of children with Autism.
It is news no parent can prepare for.
Cindy Peters, the mother of an Autistic child,
says "they told us he would probably never
speak, that he would probably need to be institutionalized
and we would need to start planning how we were
going to deal with this."
Cindy Peters' son Kenny, the bright eyed baby,
one of two children adopted from Korea, who wasn't
talking at two.
Cindy Peters says "originally we thought
perhaps there was a hearing issue because there
were times when there would be loud noises and
he didn't seem to react at all."
He was diagnosed with severe Autism and some
degree of mental retardation.
Cindy Peters says "when you get a diagnose
you don't know where you are going."
But Cindy did know she wasn't going to let her
son go and would do what it took to make that
happen. A characteristic research in the journal
Pediatrics suggests is common among mothers of
children with Autism who, despite a higher rate
of emotional and physical stress, show remarkable
strength.
Cindy Peters says "stress is a sometimes
a good thing for giving you the strength to go
on and you have to stop and think how you are
going to deal with that."
Today, Kenny is 14, a student in the Mariposa
School for Autism, founded by Cindy in 2001, inspired
by the program that helped her son learn to speak
at age 7.
Cindy Peters says "when a child doesn't
have the skills other children have every skill
they acquire is really really special so for me
to hear him say mommy was just absolutely fantastic."
And a very special gift for this determined mom
with remarkable strength.
Cindy Peters has faced most of her motherhood
challenges alone. She lost her husband five years
ago.
The Mariposa school in Cary, North Carolina,
now has nearly 50 students who come from all over
the country.
Cindy Peters is now working towards creating
programs for young adults, noting that there are
not enough resources for the thousands of youngsters
with autism who will soon be adults including
her son Kenny.
Mariposa means butterfly, a name Cindy chose,
for the hope of children emerging from the cocoon
of Autism.
To learn more about the Mariposa School created
by Cindy Peters log onto www.mariposaschool.org
The study appears in the may issue of the journal
Pediatrics.
Helen Chickering, NBC News
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