“Don’t you know how to take care of your child ?!?”
The hurt was extreme. I felt it linger deep within me. You know the feeling. Like the pain of a sudden and unexpected stomach or head ache. It’s as if someone literally punched you…hard.
It was difficult not to directly respond to that woman who, without empathy, questioned my ability to handle Jonathan, my Autistic son. Did she not see I had both my hands full and could have used another?
You see, there I was at the Costco checkout line, alone with Jonathan dealing with the full force of his meltdown. The kicking and screaming was one thing. The screaming was piercing and at the top of his lungs. Apparently, he was revolting since he didn’t get his way no matter the fact that I planned out this particular outing and did everything “right”…Jonathan obviously didn’t agree.
It’s called the “Invisible” disability.
Autism, and other forms of pervasive developmental disorders (PDD), is at times “invisible” to the general public in the sense that many afflicted with Autism look normal…just like you and me. Despite Autism being one of the most common developmental disabilities, many professionals in the medical, educational, and vocational fields, are not aware of how Autism affects people.
At the time, I was extremely hurt by that woman’s comment at Costco. If she had to take care of an autistic child for even an hour or was at least educated about autism she would understand!
Awareness and empathy is clearly lacking in our society about many things.
Fortunately, help is much closer than you think. You are not alone.
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I sincerely look forward to hearing from you.
Mother, Wife, Author, Founder & CEO of AutismToday.com
P.S. Here is something I would like to recommend that will give you the tips, strategies, and tools you need to help understand and cope with the “Invisible” disability.
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