Autism from the Soul

Doreen Marcionetti recounts her experience raising her daughter Ainslee, diagnosed with Autism-PDD/nos and a seizure disorder, who is now 17 years old. Despite the challenges they faced, one particular incident stood out when Ainslee, at the age of 11, excitedly informed her parents about getting her period, displaying unexpected joy and enthusiasm. This incident highlights Ainslee’s unpredictable yet memorable reactions to various situations, reminding her parents of her unique perspective on life despite their initial fears and concerns.

On Thanksgiving weekend in Michigan, Scott reflects on the small tree he and his wife Penni planted three years ago, rescued from a dumpster behind a local garden center. Despite its scraggly appearance, they nurtured it with optimism and dreams of its future beauty and usefulness. Scott’s enduring hope and perseverance, mirrored in his past experiences, extend to both the tree and his son Evan, who faced medical challenges at birth. Through their love and determination, Scott and Penni demonstrate the power of hope in overcoming obstacles and finding joy in the journey, embracing life’s imperfections with optimism and resilience.

The author recounts their journey with their son Mattie, who was diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome at age 2. Despite facing challenges such as limited access to services and a difficult learning environment, they tirelessly pursued resources and education, ultimately finding solace during a vacation where Mattie found comfort in water. Inspired by their experiences, the author developed visual support tools to aid children with special needs, leading to the creation of Bee Visual LLC. Despite facing financial risks and setbacks, they remain committed to helping families navigate similar challenges and provide structure for children with developmental delays. Mattie’s progress and resilience serve as a source of hope and inspiration throughout their journey.

Scott recounts a hunting trip with his buddy Dave, during which they stumbled upon an old log cabin in the hills of southern Kentucky. Despite its dilapidated state, Dave sees the cabin as a home full of stories and memories, prompting Scott to reflect on the legacy of such places. Later, back at his in-laws’ farm, Scott observes the joy and life present in their Easter celebration, despite the challenges they face due to their children’s terminal illnesses. He muses on the idea of leaving a legacy for their children versus their children leaving a legacy for them. In an epilogue, Scott suggests that Dave’s visit to the cabin was a metaphor for him guiding Scott through the process of accepting his son Evan’s condition and eventual passing, showing him that he doesn’t have to face it alone.

Scott recounts how he and his wife Penni often played a game dreaming about winning a special gift, which turned out to be a real surprise when a representative from Yo-Basti manufacturing contacted them claiming they had won a gift. Despite initial skepticism, they waited eagerly for the gift’s arrival, but it encountered several mishaps during shipping, arriving damaged. However, with the help of Claudia, a representative from Yo-Basti, they learned to appreciate the gift, which turned out to be their son, Evan. Despite his disabilities and the challenges they faced, Evan brought immense joy to their lives, defying the odds. The story serves as a reminder to cherish unexpected blessings and find joy in all circumstances.

This summer, our family traveled to the shores of Lake Michigan for a weekend retreat. Packed into our vehicle along

She walked onto the stage and a smile instantly came to my heart.  This familiar, vibrant face brought back memories

I could hear my son counting in the other room as he washed his hands and tapped his foot on